90 sekand mein kisee ko bhi apanee taraph aakarshit karane ke tareeke



He doston !!

Aaj main aapako batauga ki aap kisee ko kaise aakarshit kar sakate hain aur unhen pasand kar sakate hain ya unhen sirph 90 sekend kee baat karake prabhaavit kar sakate hain yahaan lekhak 90 sekand kah raha hai kyonki anusandhaan se pata chalata hai aur yahaan tak ki aap jaanate hain ki aajakal hamaara dhyaan avadhi bahut kam ho gaya hai.

Example:-

maigjeen vigyaapanon mein aapaka dhyaan aakarshit karane ke lie keval 2 sekands hain, aur agar aapako us vigyaapan ko 2 sekend mein pasand hai, to aap us vigyaapan ko apana samay de denge. agar aapako yah aakarshak nahin lagata hai, to aap keval pej ko chaaloo karen aur aage badhen. isee tarah, log aasaanee se hamaare baare mein apanee raay banaate hain bas unake saath hamaaree baatacheet ke kuchh sekands ke baad, isalie yah hamaare lie aavashyak ho jaata hai, keval shuruaat mein ek achchhee chhaap banaane ke lie aur ek hee samay mein unaka dhyaan kheenchane ke lie, yah vaastav mein bahut upayogee ho sakata hai aapake vyaktigat aur vyaavasaayik jeevan ke lie.
adhikaansh log samajh mein nahin aate hain, jab unhen pahalee baar kisee se milate hain to unhen kya karana chaahie.aur yah unhen pareshaan karata hai aur ve ajeeb vyavahaar karana shuroo karate hain. aur jisake parinaamasvaroop, kya hota hai, ve vipareet vyakti ke saath ek achchhe bandhan ya sambandh banaane mein viphal hote hain aur kaee baar log unhen pasand nahin karate hain, aur unhen phir se baat karane kee tarah mahasoos bhee nahin karate hain. unakee pahalee kharaab chhaap ke kaaran !

isalie yadi aap nahin chaahate hain, to aap aisa ho raha hai, ya yadi aap logon ke saath majaboot sambandh banaana seekhana chaahate hain aur logon ko baat karake baat karana chaahate hain, to aaj ke aartikal mein, main ise saajha karoonga, main aapase saajha karega kisee ke saath bhaavanaatmak star ke sambandh bana sakate hain, ham doosaron ke saath kaise baat kar sakate hain? hamen kya baat karanee chaahie? aadi yah sunishchit karane ke lie in sabhee cheejon ko samajhane ke baad aap ek peshevar kamyuniketar ban jaenge. to chalie shuroo karen !

in cheejon ko sambhav banaane ke lie, hamen pahale teen bhaagon ko samajhana hoga: -

pahala bhaag :- baithak !
doosara hissa :- ek raipaport kee sthaapana !
teesara hissa :- kamyooniketing !

kisee bhee vyakti se milane ke lie aur baithak aur sanchaar ke in do mahatvapoorn charanon ke beech unase sanchaar karana shuroo karane ke lie, 90 sekend kee khidakee dikhaee detee hai, un 90 sekand mein aap raipaint bana sakate hain aur vipareet vyakti ko prabhaavit kar sakate hain. aur bhaavanaatmak star kanekshan bana sakate hain. aur main vaastav mein kis tarah ke sambandh mein baad mein samajhaoonga, in baaton ko chinta na karen, vaastav mein bahut mahatvapoorn hain, isalie main vivaranon mein pratyek bindu ko samajhaoonga.
chalie, shuroo karate hain

No.1) Baithak

agar aap kisee ko baithak ke 3 ya 4 sekand ke bheetar apana sahee prabhaav dete hain to yah aapako bharosemand, eemaanadaar aur surakshit dikhaee dega, jo ek raipaport banaane mein vaastav mein bahut mahatvapoorn hai. to ab main paanch chhotee yuktiyon ka paalan kar ise ka paalan karake kuchh sekand ke bheetar aap sahee prabhaav bana sakate hain: -

1) khula hona

isaka matalab hai ek khula ravaiya aur shareer kee bhaasha hai, band nahin udaaharan, yadi aap kisee ke saath apane haath ko tah kar rahe hain ya kam jagah lekar baithe / baithe hue hain, to in sabhee udaaharanon se band shareer kee bhaasha ke lie hain jabaki, yadi aap apane haathon ko khulate hain, aur apane pairon ke beech ek sthaan rakhate hain aur baithe ya khade hone par jagah lete hain, to ye khule shareer kee bhaasha ke udaaharan hain. isalie hamesha ek khule shareer kee bhaasha banaane kee koshish karate hue kuchh ek baithak karate hue aap prabhaavashaalee dikhaee denge 4 ank baakee bhee khule shareer kee bhaasha ke baare mein hain taaki unaka paalan karen.

2) aaee sampark

mere sanchaar sambandhee veediyo mein mainne saajha kiya hai, kisee se baat karate hue kitanee shaktishaalee aankh sampark ho sakata hai, yahaan main bahut kuchh nahin kahoonga, yaad rakhie, ki aankhon ke sampark ko rakhane se aapako kitana aatmavishvaas aur aakarshak dikhaee dega. jabaki, kam aankh vaale sampark ko banae rakhane se pata chalata hai ki aap pareshaan hain ya aap jhooth bol rahe hain ya aap koee dilachaspee nahin rakhate hain, jo jyaadaatar samay ke lie achchha nahin hai. ek aur baat, yah pasand nahin hai, aap kaheen bhee dikhana chaahie aur aapako aankhon ke sampark ko hamesha banae rakhane kee aavashyakata hai hamesha sthiti ke anusaar aapako aankhon ke sampark ko banae rakhana hoga, yadi aavashyak ho to aapako banae rakhana chaahie yadi nahin to aapako chaahie, agar aankh abhee bhee vishesh sthiti mein sampark kee aavashyakata nahin hai, to aap ajeeb lag sakate hain isalie samajhen.

3) beem ka arth hai ek vaastavik muskuraahat.

aankh se sampark karane ke baad, aapako kya karana hoga, hamen us vyakti se muskurae jaane chaahie, isase pahale ki vah aisa karane se aapakee sakaaraatmak ravaiya pratibimbit kare aur yaad rakhen ki aapako ek vaastavik aur maitreepoorn muskuraahat nahin dena chaahie, jo daraavana ya ajeeb muskuraahat nahin hai.

4) greeting

muskuraee ke baad, aapako shubhakaamanaen, achchhe svar ke saath aur oorja se bharakar baatacheet shuroo karanee chaahie, haay, helo ya namaasak, aap jis bhee maadhyam se apanee baatacheet shuroo karana chaahate hain, kahakar aur adhik achchhee tarah se apana parichay den, aur adhik achchhee tarah se yaad rakhen vipareet vyakti khud ko aur ek aur baat bhee pesh karega, yah ek achchha samay hai, ki vipareet vyakti ke baare mein aur jaanane ke lie.
udaaharan, yadi aap kisee se milate hain aur hailo kahate hain, to isake vipareet vyakti bhee yah kahakar hee javaab denge ki hailo ya ha yah kahata hai. chup rahega, isalie yah sthiti sthiti ko aur adhik ajeeb aur ajeeb bana sakatee hai. lekin agar aap kahate hain, hailo mera naam sooraj hai aur main ek yootyoob hoon. to yahaan tak ki aapako ek bada javaab bhee milega, jaise ki main ravee hoon aur main ek vaastukaar hoon, mujhe pata hai ki yah sabase achchha udaaharan nahin hai, lekin aapako samajhana chaahie ki aap aur adhik achchhee tarah se khud ko pesh karate hain aapako madad milegee aur adhik bada javaab praapt hoga jisamen se aap apanee baatacheet ka vistaar kar sakate hain...

5) dubala

kisee se baat karate hue thoda aage badhana thoda jyaada nahin, yah vipareet vyakti ko dikhaega ki aap un mein ruchi rakhate hain aur unakee baat mein aur bhee aaraam se aur unake saath khula vipareet seks ko doosare paksh mein baithakar aisa karane kee koshish mat karo jarooratamand aur niraash lag sakata hai, jo achchha nahin dikhata hai...

No. 2) raipaport kee sthaapana

sabhee teen bhaagon mein, yah sabase mahatvapoorn hissa hai kyonki yahaan aap logon ke saath maanasik aur bhaavanaatmak star ke sambandh bana sakate hain kyonki yahaan aap logon ke saath maanasik aur bhaavanaatmak star ke sambandh bana sakate hain, jisake kaaran log aapako kuchh alag star par pasand karana shuroo karenge. jaagarook hona chaahie, ki ham manushy bhaavanaatmak jeev hain, adhikatar, hrday ke maadhyam se nirnay lete hain, na ki mastishk ke maadhyam se aur raipaport banaane se hamen bhaavanaatmak sambandh banaane mein madad milegee. any bhaavanaon aur bhaavanaon ko samajhakar, ab main ek majaboot raipaport banaane ke lie kuchh binduon ko saajha karoonga.

1) ravaiya

kabhee-kabhee apane kareebee doston ya parivaar se baat karate hue aapako pata hai ki ve udaas ya gusse mein hain aap ne unase poochha ki kya hua sab kuchh theek hai? us kshan mein, ve ek nakalee muskuraahat dete hain aur kahate hain haan, sabakuchh theek hai, main theek hoon :) jis par aap vishvaas nahin karate aur baad mein aapako pata chal gaya hai ki haan, aap usakee bhaavana ke baare mein soch rahe the kuchh kaaranon se hamen pata chal gaya ki ve jhooth bol rahe hain lekin kya aapane kabhee socha hai ki us kaaran kya hai jisake maadhyam se hamen pata chal gaya hai ki kuchh galat hai, isaka uttar isalie hai kyonki unake drshtikon ke kaaran.
kyonki hamaare drshtikon seedhe hamaare man ko prabhaavit karate hain aur hamaara man pooree tarah se hamaare shareer se juda hua hai, to kya hota hai, agar aapaka ravaiya krodh se bhara hota hai chaahe aap kitanee achchhee tarah baat karane kee koshish karen, lekin logon ko aapake chehare kee abhivyakti ke maadhyam se apana aavaaj svar aur aapake shareer kee bhaasha ke maadhyam se aap ek sampark banaane kee anumati nahin denge isalie logon ke saath baatacheet karate hue, jaise ki krodh, oob, adheer aadi ke baare mein nakaaraatmak ravaiya rakhane kee bajaay shaant rahane, mareej, aatmavishvaas aadi jaisee logon se baat karate hue sakaaraatmak drshtikon rakhane kee koshish karate hain.

2) sinkranaizeshan kee kala

maan leejie ki aap futabol pasand karate hain to aapaka sambandh un logon ke saath adhik hoga, jinake samaan ruchi aapake paas hai yadi aapako jeeotee (sinhaasan ka gem) dekhana pasand hai to aap jeeotee prashansakon ke saath samay bitaana pasand karenge. aapane dhyaan diya hoga ki aam hit ke log aasaanee se ek-doosare ke saath milakar ek doosare ke saath aasaanee se ho jaate hain aur ek kanekshan banaate hain. aisa kyon hota hai? kyonki ham un logon ke saath samay bitaana pasand karate hain jo hamaare jaise hain ya hamaare andar samaan ruchi rakhate hain, jinake samaan soch hai, unake jeevan ke baare mein samaan vichaar hain hamesha nahin lekin jyaadaatar samay, hamaare sambandh un logon ke saath kam honge jo virodh kar rahe hain isalie yadi ham doosaron ke saath sinkranaiz karate hain, ya agar ham unake jaisee cheejen karate hain yah baat vaastav mein hamen raipet banaane mein madad karegee main vichaaron aur vichaaron ke baare mein baat nahin karoonga, yah alag ho sakata hai lekin main kuchh vyaavahaarik cheejon ke baare mein baat karoonga jo samaan ho sakate hain jo sabhee ham aasaanee se sink kar sakate hain aur doosare vyakti se juda ho sakate hain.

doosaron ke saath samanvayit karane ke lie, hamen 3 vee es par dhyaan kendrit karana chaahie.

1) drshy !
2) gaayan !
3) maukhik !

drshy !

hamaare sanchaar ka 55 pratishat drshy vastu par aadhaarit hai, vishisht hone ke lie, shaareerik bhaasha par nirbhar karata hai!

gaayan !

38 pratishat sanchaar hamaare voyas ton par nirbhar karata hai!

maukhik !

keval 7 pratishat aapake maukhik sanchaar par nirbhar karata hai
sabase pahale ham jo jaanate hain, sabase mahatvapoorn baat yah hai ki hamaaree shareer kee bhaasha hai aur yah sink karane ke lie vaastav mein bahut mahatvapoorn hai aur shareer kee bhaasha ko samanvayit karane ke lie aap ek bahut saral takaneek ka upayog kar sakate hain jise miraring kaha jaata hai.

mirar

yahaan aapako vipareet vyakti kee shaareerik bhaasha ko kopee karane kee aavashyakata hai udaaharan yadi koee vyakti doosare ke oopar ek haath rakhata hai, to aap doosare haath par shaant rakhate hue baat karate samay apana haath rakh dete hain, agar aap kuchh bolane ke lie jhukaate hain, to aap bhee unake prati jhukate hain aur har star par aap apane shareer kee bhaasha ko kopee kar sakate hain , yah karo lekin ek baat yaad rakhen, ki unhen samajh nahin aa raha hai ya pata nahin hai ki aap jaanaboojhakar us udaaharan kar rahe hain, maan leejie ki vyakti apane kandhe ko chhoo raha hai, to aapako aisa karane kee zaroorat nahin hai yadi aap aisa karate hain, to vipareet vyakti samajh jaega ki kuchh sahee nahin hai, aur taalamel nahin hoga.
ab ham doosare vee ke baare mein baat karate hain jo ki vokal sanchaar hai aapaka 38 pratishat sanchaar aap jis tarah se baat karate hain, usake aadhaar par nirbhar karata hai, isalie ise is tarah se samanvayit karana bahut mahatvapoorn hai mukhar ko sink karane ke lie sabase pahale aap vipareet vyakti kee aavaaz kee aavaaz kar sakate hain, yadi vipareet vyakti aapako ek romaanchak svar mein kuchh poochh raha hai to aap bhee ek romaanchak svar udaaharan mein uttar dete hain, maan len ki aapaka dost aata hai aur aapase kahen ki kaise kya aap? (shaanadaar) to aap bhee behad achchha bhaee ko uttar dete hain, aur yadi vah bhaavuk svar mein kuchh kahata hai to aap bhee use bhaavanaatmak svar mein javaab dete hain aur isee tarah aap any aavaaj svar ko sink kar sakate hain.
aur is mein doosaree cheej jo aap sink kar sakate hain vah maatra aur gati hai yadi vipareet vyakti jor se kuchh kahata hai to aap bhee bahut zor se bolate hain aur agar dheere dheere bolate hain to aap bhee dheere-dheere bolate hain aur isee tarah aap lay aur pich ko sink kar sakate hain.
ab antim vee aatee hai gaayan shabd aur vaartaalaap jo vipareet vyakti kah raha hai aur prayog kar raha hai yah vishay itana mahatvapoorn nahin hai, is baare mein baad mein isake baare mein baat karenge.

No. 3) kanjyuritee

ham kisee bhee philm ya seereez ko dekh rahe hain aur ham apane dil ke andar gahare jaanate hain ki jo kuchh bhee chal raha hai vah nakalee hai, lekin phir bhee jab hamaare pasandeeda paatron mein se koee bhee mar jaata hai ya kuchh bhee bura hota hai to ham bura mahasoos karate hain ham gussa mahasoos karate hain aur kuchh bhee rote hain tathy yah hai ki, yah nakalee tha yah vaastavik nahin tha ham sabhee cheejen jo ham us philm ya shrrnkhala mein dekhate hain aur bhaavanaatmak roop se isake saath jude kyon aisa hota hai vishvaas karate hain? yah kuchh aisa hai jisake baare mein hamen achchhee tarah se sochane kee zaroorat hai kyonki is ke lie kangrooitee hai
khair pradarshan karanevaale abhineta hamesha 3 vee ke sanchaar par dhyaan kendrit karate hain whilai pradarshan ya unakee shaareerik bhaasha (drshy) ka arth bolate hue, mukhar aur maukhik ek doosare ke lie ekajut hote hain isalie ham unake pradarshan ko vaastavik maanate hain aur hamen vishvaas hai ki yah. isee prakaar yadi aap chaahate hain ki log aap par vishvaas karen aur aapake saath bhaavanaatmak sambandh banaayen to ekaroop hone ka prayaas karen, yah aapake shareer kee bhaasha ke samaan nahin hona chaahie, jise aap pareshaan mahasoos kar rahe hain aur keval aapakee aavaaz kee aashvastata hai isake bajaay aapako teenon mein vishvaas rakhana chaahie vee apane shareer kee bhaasha mein, apanee aavaaj mein aur yahaan tak ​​ki aapake shabdon mein bhee.
yahaan mainne samajhaaya hai ki do hisse meeting aur raipaint aur teesare bhaag se sanvaad hai, teesare bhaag mein main logon ke saath sanvaad kaise karoonga aur logon ke baare mein kya baat karanee hai yah samajh mein nahin aa raha hai ki jab ve pahalee baar kisee se milate hain to unhen kya karana chaahie . unakee baatacheet ko dilachasp banaane ke lie unhen kya karana chaahie taaki logon ko unakee kampanee se pyaar ho. haalaanki yah ek mahatvapoorn aur bada vishay hai, isalie main ise agale aartikal mein samajhaoonga. jo bhee mainne is aartikal mein samajhaaya hai, ise vaastavik mein keval ghar par veediyo dekhane ke dvaara laagoo karen, kuchh bhee nahin hone vaala hoga ab ek din ham apane sel phon ke saath itana samay bitaate hain ki ham aamane-saamane baatacheet karane ke mahatv ko bhool rahe hain aap kam phon ka upayog karane kee koshish karo aur asalee mein logon ke saath jel.

ab samaapt karane ke lie mainne is gyaan ko is pustak se saajha kiya hai ki nikolas boothamain dvaara 90 sekand mein logon ko aapake jaise kaise banaen.

yadi aap apane sanchaar kaushal mein sudhaar karana chaahate hain aur ek prabhaavashaalee vyakti banana chaahate hain to is pustak ko khareedana hai, yah aapake lie bahut upayogee saabit hogee.
yadi aap is post kee tarah krpaya is anuchchhed tippanee, is lekh saajha karen, aur is anuchchhed kee tarah ...

dhanyavaad is lekh ko padhane ke lie ....

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